{"id":4064,"date":"2010-07-09T00:00:00","date_gmt":"1970-01-01T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lesliedinaberg.com\/wordpress\/?p=4064"},"modified":"2014-10-29T19:52:19","modified_gmt":"2014-10-30T02:52:19","slug":"off-the-record","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lesliedinaberg.com\/wordpress\/?p=4064","title":{"rendered":"Off the Record"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_6864\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/lesliedinaberg.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/News-Dice-Mean-Reporting-Media-And-Bulletin-by-Stuart-Miles-freedigitalphotos.net_.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6864\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6864\" src=\"https:\/\/lesliedinaberg.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/News-Dice-Mean-Reporting-Media-And-Bulletin-by-Stuart-Miles-freedigitalphotos.net_-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Image by Stuart Miles, freedigitalphotos.net\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lesliedinaberg.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/News-Dice-Mean-Reporting-Media-And-Bulletin-by-Stuart-Miles-freedigitalphotos.net_-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lesliedinaberg.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/News-Dice-Mean-Reporting-Media-And-Bulletin-by-Stuart-Miles-freedigitalphotos.net_.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-6864\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image by Stuart Miles, freedigitalphotos.net<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;Abracadabra&#8221; is a magic word. So are &#8220;salagadoola mechicka boola bibbidi-bobbidi-boo.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Even &#8220;please,&#8221; &#8220;thank you&#8221; and &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; have magical properties sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>However, &#8220;off the record&#8221; is not a magic enchantment spell with supernatural powers to change both the future and the past.<\/p>\n<p>I repeat: &#8220;off the record&#8221; is not a magic phrase.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Off the record&#8221; is a mutually agreed upon transaction, the terms of use of which should be discussed with a reporter before the person talking &#8220;off the record&#8221; actually discloses any information.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know why this is so confusing for people, but obviously it is.<\/p>\n<p>If you really need to confide in someone, tell a priest, tell your doctor or tell your lawyer, but don&#8217;t tell a journalist\u2014unless you want him or her to do something about it. True confidentiality is what pets are for. If you must talk to someone about a private subject and you don&#8217;t want it repeated, tell it to your dog or cat. Those are the only beings that you can guarantee won&#8217;t share your confidences.<\/p>\n<p>When you say something to a journalist, think first about who it is that you&#8217;re talking to. Journalists are people who tell stuff to other people for a living. We love to tell people stuff. We get off on telling other people things they didn&#8217;t know before. Information is our currency, our life blood, our only substitute for barely making a living wage.<\/p>\n<p>Think before you talk and talk (about whether or not what you&#8217;re saying is on the record) before you really talk. Then talk to <a title=\"Gen. Stanley McChrystal\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stanley_A._McChrystal\" target=\"_blank\">Gen. Stanley McChrystal<\/a> if you still don&#8217;t understand why this is important. I hear he&#8217;s got some time on his hands these days.<\/p>\n<p>This is not to say that there aren&#8217;t perfectly legitimate reasons for telling a journalist something &#8220;off the record.&#8221; We can and will keep a secret if we say we will. It goes back to that &#8220;mutually agreed upon&#8221; part of the equation I talked about earlier.<\/p>\n<p>If, for example, something really bad is going on but you don&#8217;t want to be fired-or killed-talking to a journalist &#8220;off the record&#8221; might be a good way to set the wheels in motion to do something about it. I know this, because I&#8217;ve seen it in a movie. For example, if you&#8217;re being chased by a black-ops, rogue faction of the government, give me a call.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes there might be a need to provide background information or context for a story, stuff you don&#8217;t want to be quoted about, or even &#8220;double super secret background,&#8221; which is stuff you really, really, really don&#8217;t want to be quoted about. The old, &#8220;I could tell you but then I&#8217;d have to kill you&#8221; kind of information that many of us deal with on a day-to-day basis, at least in the movies.<\/p>\n<p>And let&#8217;s face it; some gossip is just too juicy to keep to yourself. But come to think of it, that&#8217;s probably what <a title=\"Local Arts and Culture Nonprofits Join Giving Tuesday Movement to Encourage Nonprofit Support\" href=\"https:\/\/lesliedinaberg.com\/wordpress\/?p=5887\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter<\/a> is for. I haven&#8217;t quite figured that one out. But &#8220;off the record&#8221; is something I&#8217;m pretty clear about and you should be too.<\/p>\n<p>Just keep in mind that while the line between edit and advertising has become blurred in many publications-along with the line between bloggers and journalists, professionals and hobbyists, and fact and opinion-newspaperman H.L. Mencken defined news as &#8220;what somebody does not want to see in print. The rest is public relations.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Or, as <a title=\"Rolling Stone\" href=\"http:\/\/www.rollingstone.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Rolling Stone<\/em><\/a> writer Michael Hastings wrote, when he took to Twitter to defend himself against criticism of his recent cover story which resulted in the firing of Gen. McChrystal, &#8220;Hard not to respond to this without going back to an old saying. I&#8217;m paraphrasing: Reporting is what someone somewhere doesn&#8217;t want known. Everything else is advertising.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h6>Share your journalistic pet peeves-on the record-with Leslie@LeslieDinaberg.com. 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